The thing that s always on my mind

So when i was in my freshmen year of college in 2018, my crush was a senior and we had a somewhat friendship till before his graduation we became really close and after he graduated and enlisted in the military we became in a relationship.. he was popular in college, had many friends, and was a social butterfly.. he had and still has many friends that are girls and i never mind it... except for 2.

1. A girl that was a year younger than him, different religion, different personality, and was just so creepy and clingy to him... she confessed to him many times of her love and he always denied her and said that they can never be a thing and it's just wrong.. he remained friends with her and her twin and continuously reminded her that he has a girlfriend (me) and wants nothing to do with her. One day she sent him that she wants to talk and started talking about her ex. I don't know what happened but something lead her to send him a full picture of her breast and just other pictures saying "she trusts him with these". He said to stop this and told her again that he's taken and "these" are not acceptable... Days passed and he was so weird with me, always quiet and distanced and when i got too worried and asked him many times what's wrong he'd avoid the questions.. then he would be fine and smiling and joking around with his and my friends.. i got into an argument with him and he told me about what she did and everything that i just wrote.. but he didn't say her name. I got upset and asked him why hasn't he cut ties with her and he said she's a friend and he hates losing people.. I just kept quiet and told him that's not a solution and had just gotten enough of it and him and just dropped the conversation... i figured out who she was and removed her from all my social medias (later to find out she blocked me) and when i got ahold of my boyfriend's instagram (by his choice... he has mine too) i removed her from his account and unfolllowed her.. about a year later the conversation started about her again and i told him i removed her and that i know it's her.. he didn't make a comment but said that me removing people wasn't the right thing and that i should've told him but he didn't care (there were 2 others that i removed but those were from work and always called him when we were on dates and would tell him to stay at home better) anyway.. that girl's account is public and she re-followed him.. and blocked me... again... i tried telling him to remove her again that her being there watching his life and just observing is creepy enough and i don't want her in our lives... he doesn't want to do that and keeps reassuring that he stopped talking to her... i just don't want her to feel as if she is still there watching what he does and has an opportunity to talk again...

WHAT DO I DO?
remove her again? leave her be? tell him to put an end to this mess?

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MEB Relationships May 19, 2022 at 5:01 pm 1 2