I can t STAND my co admins

I figured here would be as good a place as any to rant because I am F U M I N G right now and I need somewhere to let it out where the subjects of this rant won't find it because I'd ruin many a friendship if I did.

{TW for typical Danganronpa things related to death, mentions of drugs/overdose}

I can't fucking STAND the admins that I run this Danganronpa RP group with. They said we needed new members for the group, right? So I invite a couple folks, we get ready for the next round of the game, begin discussing characters we're going to use..... And I get a DM from a friend outside of the server, enraged about how their friend (one of the people I invited to the server) was in tears because an anonymous letter (addressed as being from THE GAME MASTERS AND SOME MEMBERS OF THE SERVER) said that they couldn't play their character because he was a bit on the flirtier side and tended to do the hand on the shoulder thing a lot, and that made E V E R Y O N E uncomfortable. Come to find out it was the other two admins and a singular other person who was uncomfortable with it- and there was no discussion prior to the letter being sent, so there was that.... All because some people couldn't fucking set boundaries or say 'Hey, I'm not comfortable with my character being flirted with, even in joke RP! So please stop!'
And now- all because of some 'UnSpOkEn RuLe' about all of the characters having to be between 16-19 that I was never made aware of- more drama has begun. Like fuck, dude, seriously pulling the 'b-but i'm a MINOR and having a character that's 22 in server makes me UnCoMfOrTaBlE' card AND the 'well, it technically is MY server' card? When you gave ME server owner permissions and let me form a majority of the lore that we're going to be following? Like genuinely fuck you, dude.

Fuck.

You.

The vast majority of my characters personally are tied together in some way, so their age will be affected when each game is played- and now I have to adjust LITERALLY EVERYTHING in the lore that I've written out for them to even have a shot at playing them. Not only that, but anything even HINTING at mentions of drugs/alcohol/sex is pretty much being banned now. So again, MAJOR character rebuilding has to be done. Like my bartender, for example- one of her darkest secrets is that she's shoplifted hundreds of thousands of dollars in alcohol to make drinks for people before she turned 21 and was legally able to purchase it. But now because of these stupid fucking rules that the other admins are making for the server without discussing with me first- for a series in which the main selling point is LITERALLY *MURDER* (when we've also had people DRUGGED AND CANNIBALIZED irp before, along with characters literally having almost overdosed in their backstories/experiencing withdrawals irp)- I'm going to have to do a complete character overhaul and scrub her down to some mild-mannered and untrue to her character version of her to even get a chance to play her.
And it's not even just me who has to deal with the overhaul, a bunch of other server members have to entirely rework their characters before thinking of using them and it has me furious.

Like what the actual FUCK???

I'm honestly 5 seconds away from dropping the server lore/making it public for everyone and just dipping, fuck them. They can have their goddamn server, but they won't have any of MY ideas to use for it.

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anonymous Miscellaneous August 23, 2022 at 5:11 pm 0 0