You re not the most cheerful person

There's literally a girl in my friend group who keeps bragging about how she's the "most cheerful person in the class" even when she's NOT (let's call her person A). Like there's this other girl who actually IS the most cheerful person in the class, and everyone agrees (let's call her person B). But A still keeps bragging. A even admitted to this fact but then covered it up with "I am still the most cheerful person despite what I've been through" like excuse me, WHAT? Nobody's enjoying the fact that you automatically assumed that nobody has any issues, like girl, can you just stop? Just because you were a victim of sexual abuse once that doesn't mean you have the right to ignore other's hardships in life as well. I know that sexual abuse is a really controversial topic but literally BRAGGING about it like it is something to be proud of is not acceptable. She keeps bringing this topic up again and again like if it is some kind of a trophy. Nah girl, if you were sexually abused, it's not something to be proud of and SURELY not an excuse to not acknowledge what other people are suffering with. I come from an abusive family. And I just want to say that abuse is abuse, no abuse is higher than another abuse, and thinking that other people are weak and fragile just because they "aren't abused enough" is literally disgusting.

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anonymous Friends July 23, 2023 at 12:44 pm 0 0